In the course of a relationship, there will, no doubt, be times that your partner might feel a spark of attraction for someone else. Of course, the decision on whether or not to take action on this lies with her.
Normally, she should be able to talk through these feelings with
you so you can both figure out what is lacking in the relationship that
might cause her to be S3@.Xx:’ually attracted to another man. But she
might be too afraid or too shy to do this.
Look out for the signs below so you can initiate a conversation with her fast. Before things get out of hand.
1. She initiates S3@.Xx:’ more often: If your once
S3@.Xx:’ually-shy partner is suddenly into S3@.Xx:’ all of a sudden,
then be wary. Sure, you might want to give in to the bliss of knowing
you do not have to cajole her for S3@.Xx:’ but a sudden change like this
usually means something is up. If someone else has her juices flowing
all day, she will be so turned on that she will want to let out her
S3@.Xx:’ual frustration by having S3@.Xx:’ with you. It is like she is
feeling the excitement of a new relationship but she comes to you for
the S3@.Xx:’ part. Be sure to discuss this before she starts going to
him for the S3@.Xx:’ part too.
2. She keeps trying something new: Normally, you
choose the positions and she goes along. But these days, she takes the
lead and asks for new things almost every single time you both hit the
sheets. If you ask for an explanation, she evades you. This might be
because she is practicing for when she gets on with her new guy.
3. She keeps her eyes/mouth closed: When a woman
is using you for S3@.Xx:’ but wishing she was with someone else, she
would want to keep her eyes closed so she can focus on imagining she was
with the other guy. Looking at you will ruin this. She might also bite
her lips or keep her mouth shut because she is afraid to say the wrong
thing (or name).
4. She works towards looking/dressing different:
You have never said anything about her weight or style, but you start to
notice she is suddenly trying to get fitter or dress different. If you
ask her and she is innocent, she will give you a legitimate reason you
can understand such as wanting to be healthier or look better for you.
But when you ask and she dodges your question or acts like she is hiding
something, she probably is. She might be working so hard to look good
to get another man’s attention.
5. She mentions him: more than a few times: If you
are someone she considers to be a close friend, then she is very likely
to have mentioned this guy at some point. When a woman is excited about
someone, she cannot simply keep him to herself. Sure, she would not
talk about him in a romantic way, but she will bring him up in other
ways. She might mention a joke he shared, or something funny he did. The
point is, when a new guy keeps coming up in your conversations at
random times, then you should keep an eye out.
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